superlative words super comedy

when I was in 9th standard class,I have a passion to become a english orator like shashi tarror 

It was a Sunday afternoon and I entered in to the classroom with little confidence,because of superlative words oral exam.I know  "how to crack the superlative words  oral exam" .
The English teacher is old and strict angry person.

The situation became little warm.
The teacher is asking one by one superlative word like cruel Butcher selecting goats for good meat. 

Now my strike came
“ramu..superlatives of the word ‘good’?” asked me when he was reading something in book.

I shouted at the top of my voice -
“GOOD ! GOODER ! GOODEST”

The Old Teacher  laughed loudly

Yeah please
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When you are in an engineering examination?

I know I could not post for 2 weeks but it's not my fault my adventure story is on it's own adventure and my story on women is just like women in my life it's invisible.So I am sitting in my examination Hall and writing my next week story on my question paper .Man! I like my engineering internals are interesting the effort decreases every year like my grades .First year before starting I used to draw borders for all papers hiping I will write them all and a year later I just draw for the First Pape ad I only fill that page but now I don't even go there because I am busy writing stories on my question paper.

Ok back to this week's post I should not miss it this week I am missing  🍕 every week .So I am sitting in my examination Hall and thinking what should I write , should I write about my broke days no it will over flow I got a lot of them . Should I write about Joe dumb my people in my college are noo that might get in to problem even if you cut their brain into half they won't be open minded . Should I write about India n politics that would be wonderful but I would end up with a lot to write and I may do nothing just like them.Or should I write about my life that would be funny  . Wait a second I aldredy wrote one you just read it I think my exam is done I will leave here .

Pls comment any topic I will write which ever u pick 

Enlightenment Within Yourself !!

Women all over the world have struggled their way and made considerable contributions for the betterment of the society. It’s a myth that none of their steady and strong progress in historic, cultural, social and economic areas has gone noticed. Their different roles in greatest epics and strong nature of sacrifices have set an apt example since Vedic period. Women have been respected and have been elected to rule an entire kingdom with great valour and dignity.

So, do we understand women are still revered, respected and given equal rights to voice their opinion? Not many believe this to be true, though there are many laws and women rights that have come into existence. Though much progress is being made by developing countries with empowering women as the main criteria , still most of women face many issues at home, at workplace, during travel ,in voicing their opinion and mostly shockingly even before there are born. Many cases of selective abortion, female infanticide and abandoned female baby have been a sensitive issue where in both sides a women at loss.

Women have been playing diverse roles to run the house, bearing and upbringing children, as a mother, wife, sister, daughter, teacher and most importantly a guide in building up a strong family of social and cultural values thereby a powerful society as a whole.

As many decades and generations have passed can we now say women now have full protection to walk freely, full freedom to choose their way of life? Still many social evils and obstacles exist in this society and yet many women striving for equal rights as men.
What does Women Empowerment mean? Empowerment means giving the woman the right to live her life, right to choice, right to decide her future and respect and support her in achieving greater success and fulfill her aims and aspirations.

Where does Empowerment start from? Many social causes, development programmes on women welfare, self employment are some of the areas gathering momentum. Education among them is the ideal key to empower women right from the start. Educating men too plays a pivot role in empowering women.

There is a mother who fights with her husband and in-laws and aims at educating her daughter by all means so that she can lead a better life than hers as she know proper education gives the power to understand what’s right and wrong hence voice her opinion.
There are little girls who have been abandoned at birth (Parents uneducated) and still beg on the streets. There are daughters who still fight for their right to choose their choice of specialization of study. Many young women fight for pursuing a career and support her parents rather than getting married at an early age of eighteen.

Many forced marriages still are in place where daughter are considered a burden and parents get rid of them along with satisfying the demands of dowry too. Few situations exist where men are supportive of women working part time and bringing up their children too.

Though we have advanced ,women are still being held by parents’ decisions, opposition from husband and in-laws, force and pressure from the society, setbacks at workplace and many more. So, women educate yourself, educate others around you, you always are courageous, be free to voice your opinion and finally enlighten the light within you. You can enlighten the whole world.

Beti Padao !! Beti Bachao !!

"Woman! You’ve got owned!"

Women in India have come a long way from Child marriages and Sati rituals to Independent life and Equal rights. There are several laws protecting women and empowerment of women has become the biggest goal of the millennium in bridging the gap towards development of the country. Women now have the opportunity to hold high profile portfolios in politics or to run huge businesses. So, can we now say that women are happy and are successful in attaining equal status as men in the society? 

There is a girl, who even today begs her father to study fashion designing instead of engineering. But her father wants her to do engineering because she is brilliant at math, it costs lesser to do engineering, the chances of her placement or that of studying abroad further are higher and that in turn she will find the best suitable groom with this kind of profile, whereas, fashion designing is a very expensive choice with absolutely uncertain future. This explanation seems logically correct.

This situation as opposed to the situation where her father doesn’t allow her to study after 10^th standard, doesn’t allow her to go out of the house and gets her married at 18, is quite advanced and meaningful. However, if we look at the outcome, an 18 year old, minimally educated, married woman is not quite happy with her life and so is a 21 year old Engineer working in a multi-national company fulfilling her father’s dream. We would probably have had a happy and successful 19 year old great designer in the lines of Ritu Kumar or Kanika Goyal if only she pursued her dream.

We have advanced but women are still getting owned by parents’ choices.

Another woman, who graduated but was never interested in studies, got recently married to a well-settled NRI groom and left her whole world to go to his world in a foreign land. Her parents are super happy that she married a groom of their choice and they genuinely believe that she will have a better life abroad. Her husband earns a handsome salary but he has to pay mortgages on their home, cars and for maintaining their residency status in that country. He also has responsibilities to fulfil towards his parents and siblings back home in India.

He then suggests that his wife should work there so that they can continue to live a luxurious life and also because all his friends’ wives are working. He loves her, takes her out to many places and keeps her happy but he has expectations. She struggles with the job hunt and works very hard to keep up with the growing competition. She never had the intention to work. She dreamed of being a perfect homemaker. To keep up with the growing expectation of her husband, she faces a number of interviews and gets rejected everywhere and then she becomes chronically depressed for being a loser.

This situation as opposed to the situation where the husband mistreats her, abuses her, tortures her in a foreign land to satisfy his ego and keeps her isolated from all social interactions, is definitely nicer and forward. However, if she does not have to face such unrealistic expectations and if she has the freedom to do what she can do the best, she would have probably developed a new business model based out of her homemaker niche. She could have become a YouTube star and even earned a lot of money in the process.

We have advanced but women are still getting owned by spouse’s expectations.

A very well educated and successful career woman, who is married to an average businessman, is pregnant with their first baby. Unfortunately, the baby had developmental issues and was diagnosed as autistic. This new mother has no idea what she is dealing with. Her husband asks her to quit working to take care of this special child because the society believes that only a mother can give good care to a child. He says he’d provide well for them and that he’d take care of all financial requirements because that is believed to be the responsibility of a man.

Unwillingly, she quits her job and tends to her child in every possible way. She works together with care givers, therapists and teachers to help their child become normal again. Every minute of every day, she spends towards her baby with absolutely no time for herself or for her husband. The husband spends lesser and lesser time with his now dysfunctional family under the premise that he is working harder for paying all bills. Extended family, friends and neighbours all appreciate the man for bearing the burden but they advise her on what more she can do to make things better for the kid. Her mother-in-law also suggests having another child so that the first child can learn from the second.

This situation as opposed to the situation where the husband and in-laws blame the wife for begetting such an anomalous child, husband disowning the child and its mother, people in the community defaming her as the bad luck (shani / panvati) upon the family, is much more mature and sensible. However, if we look at this situation more practically, she shouldn’t have to quit her work and give up her career for the sake of the child. The responsibilities could have been shared more appropriately in a fashion where both get to take care of the child as well as advance their careers. She could have probably provided better financially while he could have probably given better care to the child.

We have advanced but women are still getting owned by societal pressures.

Today, certain bigger social evils against women still persist, like female infanticides, human trafficking, sexual harassment, domestic violence, dowry deaths, etc., and that is very unfortunate. But earlier there were also things like, women not being allowed to get educated as much as men, women being meant to only take care of household chores and not having a say in financial matters, woman not being allowed to go out of the house by herself, woman’s only job being bearing children and raising them well. Women were only treated as those invisible creatures, who would make everything right and still peek somewhere in the corner without asking for anything in return.

In spirit we have bridged a lot of gaps, but we are not even nearly there when it comes to gender equality. It is still the case that “Men and Women are equal, but Men are more equal than Women”. Clearly the situation is not as bleak as five decades ago. But that doesn’t mean we have achieved anything yet. Women deserve more. They do not need a Taj Mahal after they die; they need some respect when they are alive. They need the freedom to be able to make their choices and live by them. An honest advice to all: Do not trample on the simple joys of a woman because you have better plans for her. She is very much capable of making her choices and taking her decisions. Respect that!